As a woman, I am destined to have issues with my body. I read Vogue, InStyle, Shape, Fitness, and Self. All of these lovely magazines are plastered with beautiful, thin women with perfect hair and teeth and tans. I log onto pinterest and am bombarded with “fitspo” and “thinspo”. While I understand that to sell products it is important to have beautiful people modeling, America has such an obsession with “skinny” sometimes it’s sickening.
I was watching 90210 (guilty pleasure) on Netflix last night when I couldn’t sleep and as much as I enjoy the show I was getting pretty worked up. I looked at how thin those girls were and I became filled with emotions. Anger, worry, jealousy, sadness, disgust. You name it, these stick thin actresses made me feel it.
Anger: “Why are they so skinny and why am I… not?!” Worry: “Do they eat? Do young girls watch this show and now worry about their weight?” Jealousy: “I wish I was that thin.” Sadness: “I’ll never be thin.” Disgust: “Ugh, It’s 2 am and now I’m jealous, sad, and upset!”
I know that it is just a TV show and these young women are actresses, and therefore make a living because of their looks. However, I also came to a conclusion. I looked at the cars they were driving on the show, and the affairs their parents were having, and the overall drama that was occurring in each episode and a lightbulb came on. None of this is real! (You’re laughing at me saying, “OBVIOUSLY!”). But it is all fake, fake, fake. This stuff doesn’t happen in real life. This is all a production.
If I can grasp the idea that the drama and the money and the clothes are all things that typical teenagers don’t have, why can’t I grasp the idea that typical teenagers don’t have their bodies either? I thought about this for a while. No these girls are not fake, but the expectations are unrealistic just like much of the show! We don’t have to look like actresses. We have to be ourselves!!! So much easier said than done, but take a moment to think about how happy you are just having some popcorn and watching the drama unfold on Netflix with your girlfriends rather than waking up at 4 am to kill it in the gym and film for 14 hours and then eat a salad.
Everything in moderation, right?!
I dislike my body A LOT some days. But the key here is to accept the fact that maybe your body doesn’t rival that of a Victoria’s Secret model but you are blessed in many ways and Victoria’s Secret models aren’t NORMAL! YOU ARE!